Discussion topic of the day....CHEATING!

From adamisaredneck2000 [24.176.33.99] - 2008-07-29

Cheaters???? personal opinion.... they need to burn in hell. I utterly hate cheaters. I have been cheated on 3 times, never cheated myself, but always got cheated on. why do people cheat? If you cheat, that means you clearly do not have the same feelings for your girlfriend or boyfriend that you once had. But your just too chicken to admit that you are in the wrong. I have a friend that always cheats, and it bugs the hell out of me. I treat girls with respect and I get crap in return, he cheats and lies, and girls just melt for him like butter...... I don't get it, it honestly makes no sense. questions or advice????????

From 98.141.11.37 - 2008-07-14

I had a girl email me on myspace saying she had a n affair with my husband last summer...  Do I saty or get the hell out... I am a good wfife have never cheated and i give up the booty so why would he cheat and with someone who is not even compared to me? SHE FUGLY!!! I have phone records, credit card reciepts and bank statements... HE is claiming it DID NOT HAPPEN.. Who do I believe??????

From dirty [75.55.212.78] - 2008-02-27

recently my girlfriend of 3 years moved back to her hometown, 3,000 miles away. before she left she informed me she had been sleeping  with two other men there, for most of our relationship. i'm not a jealous person and would have worked through this kind of thing if she felt it was really important, but the feeling of betrayel is driving me crazy. knowing that i had been decieved for years makes me feel like she isn't even the person i knew and loved, but someone else entirely. and i can't stop obsessing about it, about how hurt my heart is, how stupid i was for not noticing, how anyone could do something like this.

i, myself, cheated on someone once, she was an ex, lindsey, that broke my heart when i was young. years later, after she had a child with someone else, she wanted back together with me. lingering feelings remained, memories of how much i loved her. But, i couldn't give her my heart again, it was too tied up with my more recent ex at the time, andi, and when i visited her miles away, i couldn't help but feel her in my arms again. when i got home i told lindsey about it immediately and broke up with her. maybe it was revenge.

From me [155.103.6.254] - 2008-02-26

My boyfriend moved in less than a month after we started dating.  He proposed after 3 months together.  We've now been together for about 8 months and he's been cheating on me since.  I found out he lied about his where-abouts.  He's slept with at least one other woman.  I've found credit card receipts from his shopping trips with these women.  I've seen the bank statements where he's sent roses to other women.  I have hacked into 5 of his email accounts.  He has profiles on MANY different sex websites.  He is currently talking to his ex-girlfriend that he had when he was cheating on his wife. 

From 68.228.44.216 - 2008-02-23

I cheat all the time. I will have sex with a guy then turn right around and be on the phone or texting with one of my other guys. Sometimes when I am riding in the car with one I will answer the phone and totally talk to one of the others. I have sex with all of them and none of them know about eachother. I know it's wrong, but I have been cheated on so many times and I wouldn't doubt it if these guys are seeing other people too. Guys aren't the only ones that can be players! lol. I also like to date guys that have girlfriends or even wives. It's interesting to watch all the stupid things they do that are gonna get them caught. I almost teach them how to be careful and not get caught. I know its wrong, but for right now...that's what I do.

From Marcos G [206.170.104.21] - 2008-02-15

Me and my now ex girl friend had one of my friends who We would have three somes with like once every month or two. SHe gave me permission to slep with her once. While she slept with my friend atleast 5 times before. I never let her know i knew until we split. After she let me do my friend the second time she slept with her at least 3 more times.  I had sex with my friend just one time with out askign for permission cuase i thought it was cool.  After which she wanted to break up becuase she could not trust me. Dont get me wrong, i still care for my ex, and i am not plaacing the blame solely on her. It is both our fualts. I beleive we could have worked this out. She told her whole family that i was the only one who cheated even though i did it once and she did it around a dozen times. Most of which she started the little sexcapades.

She actually tells them that she was not at fualt.

 

But now i some times go down onmy friend when ever i feel excited. I love ringing my friends bell when ever she lets me. And i know she likes it. WRight away she gets turned on.

From I wish I would have learned sooner [67.67.196.7] - 2008-01-27

In my past relationships I have been cheated on many times.This is just 2 stories...

 

Anyway,one time I was with a guy for 6 years.He cheated on me becuase I wouldnt sleep with him.So he went to one of my so called friends partys and ended up sleeping with one of the girls in my class. I was a Jr. in high school at this point and I wanted to wait.My bf at the time had already graduated. Anyway we broke up for good not long after I found out the truth.And I moved 6 months later.Its been almost 7 years since then and well he still tries to call me and or find me through my family luckly I live 3 1/2 hours away. And im married...it comes in cycles with my ex he will call me late hours into the night 10-15 times sometimes for 2 weeks straight then he wont try to get a hold of me for 6-9months. It irrating becuase I have clearly moved on and he apprently can not although he married the girl he cheated on my with because I guess he couldnt do any better.

 

 

The next time I was cheated on. I was dating a 27y/o and I was 19-20 at the time stupid I know.Well I worked at a bar and I ended up becoming friends with one of the girls who was married.Well apprently she wasnt that happy.Her husband was in the army and she had a baby.And he left for Iraq. So my bf and one of his friends and her went to New Orlands together. Well my married "friend" was hooking herself out and stuff and then when they got into the hotel she jumped on my bf and then went to his best friend. My married friend said it was rape...but she clamed she was raped 100's of times. I just dont believe it.You cant rape the willing. 

Anyway so I find out the truth a month later and me and my bf are having problems. And my married so called friend well we were done. The night me and my bf broke up he hit me a few times. A day later I went to the hospital becuase I thought I was having a miscarriage.I didnt know I was preggers. Less then a week later I moved 2 1/2 hours away. He called me after 6 months and wondered if I was ok and if I was off of I35 becuase Houston was evacuating becuase of the hurrican they thought was going to hit. I told him I had been in Austin for a while and I was happy.Havent heard from him since and dont want to.    

To be honest I saw red flags all over this last story when me and my 27y/o ex were together.And he was a acloholic.IDK why I didnt leave him.I guess I was just stupid and believe what he said.  

From heartbroken [68.80.112.159] - 2008-01-26

MY WIFE AND I WERE HAVIN TROUBLE. WE STOPPED TALKIN STOPPED SLEEPIN TOGETHER EVERYTHING.A YEAR GOES BY AND STILL YHE SAME MESS. EXCEPT NOW WE HARDLY EVEN SEE EACH OTHER. ANOTHER YEAR GOES BY. A WEEK BEFORE CHRISTMAS I WAS TOLS SHE HAD A NEW BOYFRIEND. 10 DAYS LATER SHE TELLS ME SHE HAD HIS BABY. SHE SAID SHE THOUGHT I DIDN'T LOVE HER THAT I WAS ONLY THERE FOR MY SON. WHAT!!!

From 69.244.43.227 - 2008-01-26

i have been the other woman several times. It is always the same story...the married man complains about how his wife is such a bitch and blah blah blah, oh and they almost always act like they never have sex with their wives because their wives don't give it up. I have been in the middle of sex with one of them and the wife called and he answered and talked to her for a long time. It's amazing how lax they are about getting caught. They pay for stuff on the credit cards and even though their wife has access to their phone records and stuff they still call you all the time. crazy...